| Location | Chelsea, London |
| Age | 3 months |
| Cause of Death | Meningitis |
| Date of Birth | 27/09/1998 |
| Date of Death | 30/12/1998 |
| Visitors | 3,598 since 26/01/2007 |
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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Scotty Mac Ashworth who was born in Chelsea, London, United Kingdom on September 27, 1998 and passed away on December 30, 1998 . We will remember him forever.
Well what can I say about Scotty, born at 32 weeks and as soon as he was born I knew he was precious, how? He was born at very heavy weight for his gestational period and he knew he was for living and fought and we were allowed to take him home at 39 weeks. He already had a brilliant personality at his 6 weeks and was very quiet, only ever cried when he wanted something. He love to play with his uncle Daniel, then 7 and Daniel was like his second daddy, he always wanted to make sure he was ok.
He started being really moody on December 29, uncle Daniel was very concerned. Uncle Daniel helped me put him in his cot to sleep, when he woke he was as moody as ever. Daniel held him as he fell back asleep, while I kept him dosed on Calpol. He slept on and off all of the day and then at around 8:00pm we bathed him and put him in his cot. Kept him dosed on the Calpol overnight as he woke up a few times, a bottle at 5am. At 8:30am ish Daniel went to see how he was, Daniel doted on baby neffy and he ended up in my room screaming saying Scotty was dead. I went to check and his skin had basically turned a purpley blue colour like the colour of bruises with the odd patch of normal skin. I told my mum and she rang 999 who were there within a matter of minutes. We were told he had meningococcal meningitis which had a 10% survival rate.
He was purpley blue all over and if had he survived this illness, both his legs would have to be amputated above the knee and one arm at the shoulder but he didn't make it.
Scotty lasted 6 hours before he couldn't handle it anymore. Me and my mum stood in each others arms as his heart stopped beating. I cried for days and still do after 8 years but the hardest part was telling Daniel, we managed to tell him and he was gobsmacked. He didn't speak for days, he struggled to eat, drink and sleep and only cried silent tears. Dad and my sister came down and we passed him around us holding him, all crying like mad until 4 hours later when we just couldn't handle it anymore. How did our little man go so quick?
His funeral was on the 12th January 1999, why did I not think to take him to the docotors when he started being a bit off? I miss him more everyday and never ever will forget him.
He now has 6 younger brothers and sisters who know or will know all about him as they get older and I know he'll be a very proud big brothers watching down on them like a guardian angel. Joshua, 7, Louise, 6, Freddie, 3, Naal and Ivan, 20 months and Tillie, 6 months all miss you and love you so. And Daniel and me well we've not been right since. No-one in the family has. RIP little angel we love you loads
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Sending you lots of Love on your Angel Day
Stay close to all who Love and miss you sweetheart,
Love always,Sylvie xxxxx
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This day will be a celebration
Of the short time you were here.
You will always be remembered
With great love and many tears.
But to only feel pain and sorrow
Would not be fair to you.
Your life meant so much more to us,
More than words could say.
You were here so briefly,
I wonder if you knew
All the ways you’ve touched
Our world and our hearts
And everyone who knew you
Since the day God called you home.
Now my child, you’re an Angel
With your heavenly Father above,
We see not only what we’ve lost
But our capacity of love.
There will always be a big void
In our life and a hole in our
Hearts that will never heal.
Our souls will grieve forever.
Will we forget or stop loving you?
No! Not now…not ever.
Special Angel Day - by Sam & Gordon Winson
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♥ Its Your Angel Anniversary Another year has passed Although we cannot see you Our memories are here to last.♥ Thinking of you today Love Sylvie ♥
Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett
"Happy Birthday Scotty"
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?
Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.
Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.
The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.
No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Son of yours.
"I'll lend you for a little time
A child of Mine," He said,
"For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years
Or twenty-two or three,
But will you, till I call him back,
Take care of him for Me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you,
And should his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief."
"I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return.
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
I've looked this wide world over,
In my search for teachers true.
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you.
Now will you give him all your love,
Not think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call
And take him back again?"
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done,
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
The risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known,
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him,
Much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes,
And try to understand."
Member Of Life After Death~Baby Loss Forum
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I would like to Say your little one is so beautiful and such a cheeky smile too,
My thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of you little darling xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I made a couple of pics for you hope this is ok ? xxxxxxxx
A Mother's Grief
She carries such a heavy heart, her tears will often flow,
Seems everyone's avoiding her, seems no-one wants to know!
Her grief she carries all alone, nobody seems to care,
Or help her ease this burden, this burden she must bear.
Her baby has just left her, but where, where did he go?
Why did he have to leave so soon, and will she ever know?
A mother's grief's a lonely path, she only wants her child,
For other's understanding, their love, if only mild!
To talk of her lost baby, acknowledge her real pain,
To tell her life will soon be bright, she'll see her child again,
For he has gone to Heaven, an Angel up above,
Where there's no tears or dying, just great eternal love.
Try understand this mother's grief, praise God it was not you
That lost your precious, wanted child, for he was wanted too!
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WITH LOVE LOUISE XXX
I hope your scott is having loads of fun with my scott up above with all the other angls,and i bet their r mischeivous,my scott was anyway,not a day go's by without a tear,dont know about you but i dont believe in god no more.
All my love
Ian
R.I.P Scotty xxx
I dont know you but you are such a gorgeous little boy! God needed an angel and he chose you because he only takes the best (A) Deepest Sympathy to all of Scott's family and friends R.I.P Little Man xxx
His Journey's Just Begun
His Journey’s Just Begun
Don't think of him as gone away,
his journey's just begun.
Life holds so many facets,
this earth is only one.
Just think of him as resting,
from the sorrows and the tears.
In a place of warmth and comfort,
where there are no days and years.
Think how he must be wishing,
that we could know today...
How nothing but our sadness
can really pass away.
And think of him as living
in the hearts of those he touched...
For nothing loved is ever lost
and he was loved so much!
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